The Push to Build Confidence
Eric says he’s particularly grateful that Amanda consistently pushed him to go outside his comfort zone to develop his confidence and self-advocacy skills.
He notes that when he was younger, he often felt awkward speaking up to self-advocate. “Mrs. Tracey would encourage me, ‘Do it. Raise your hand.’ And when I did, she’d praise me and encourage me to do it again. She always made it clear that if you want to be successful, you have to push yourself,” Eric says. “Over time, she was able to come to school with me less often because I was able to speak out on my own.”
He adds that it really helped him understand the importance of self-advocacy when Amanda offered a big-picture perspective on their work together. “In the long run, who’s going to do it for you? As I got older, eventually I realized that I have these accommodations for a reason; my mom fought hard to get them for me, so I better use them.”
That self-advocacy is important for all children, but especially for children with hearing loss. Amanda shares that self-advocacy is her favorite thing to teach students. She notes that all families and caregivers are prone to do too much for their children, but it’s especially important for families of children with hearing loss to encourage their independence and self-advocacy.
“Students must know what they need to be successful and to have access. I really push them because I want them to have the confidence and self-awareness to not feel different,” she says. “I don’t want my students to blend into the background, I want them to stand out! Not for their hearing loss but because they know who they are, and they’re ok with it.”
Even when children who are deaf or hard of hearing are aware of what they need in terms of accommodations, they may feel uncomfortable speaking up to adults to request what they need or to remind them. To make it easier, Amanda often frames it with a sports metaphor. “Sports like golf and bowling have rules in place to level the playing field for different players,” she explains. “It’s the same with a student using their accommodations on their IEP [Individualized Education Program] such as getting a copy of notes, using a HAT [hearing assistive technology] system, preferential seating, et cetera. It makes it even.”
Fortunately, there is more than one way to self-advocate. Amanda notes that children need to find a way that fits their individual personalities. If they aren’t comfortable speaking up in class, they can speak to or email the teacher later or even develop non-verbal signals. If they don’t want to field on-demand questions about their hearing technology on a regular basis, they can give a PowerPoint presentation to their class at the beginning of the year.
For students with hearing loss, a teacher who can help guide them in understanding who they are, developing their strengths and finding their own way of self-advocating, can have a lasting impact in school and far beyond.
What Does Your Clarke Teacher of the Deaf Mean to You?
In honor of Teacher Appreciation Week, we asked the Clarke Mainstream Services community how their teachers of the deaf have impacted them. Here is a sample of the many responses we received!
“My Clarke teacher of the deaf helped me with my assignments to help me better understand the material and how to complete them to the best of my ability. She also worked with my teachers so that I better understood what I needed to correct in class and on assignments. She was very helpful during my high school years and I’m very thankful for her help.”
—Twelfth-grader Jack, who has been working with his Clarke teacher of the deaf for three years
“Our teacher of the deaf is a strong advocate for our son and does a very good job articulating his needs to the school district and the teachers. She understands that every child’s hearing loss affects them differently, and the challenges these students face vary individually. I appreciate how responsive she is to communicating with me whenever I have a concern. We have worked with her for such a long time and trust her completely. Having our Clarke teacher of the deaf as part of our son’s team has provided us with assurances that his academic plan is the best it can be.”
—Karen, mother of seventh-grader Dylan, who has been working with their Clarke teacher of the deaf for nine years
“Our teacher of the deaf from Clarke has been instrumental in Colin’s success at his mainstream school. Since he was in preschool, she was an ally in helping us advocate for Colin’s educational needs, skillfully navigate interactions between school and home while not losing sight of Colin’s needs, services and goals. We really appreciate her thoughtful and diplomatic approach in meetings, collaboration with teachers/staff and tailored IEP goals that reflect her knowledge and our vision for Colin’s success in school. Most importantly, the manner in which she connects with Colin, talks about him and connects with us, shows how much she cares about what she does. We are aware of how challenging her role is, in which she has to wear so many hats, travel to so many schools, balance so many viewpoints, while also working with so many kids. We hope that she knows that her sacrifices and efforts are not unseen. We recognize that Colin’s gains come from her hard work and consistency that is poured into him day in and day out. We will always be forever grateful for her being part of our village.”
—Juliana, mother of first-grader Colin, who has been working with their Clarke teacher of the deaf for three years
“Our Clarke teacher of the deaf is such a blessing! She works alongside Drew’s teachers, adapts materials, troubleshoots issues, and breaks material up into understandable chunks… all while encouraging his independence! Drew tackled tough subjects while in high school and we credit his success to his hard work and her help!”
—Jen, mother of twelfth-grader Drew, who has been working with their Clarke teacher of the deaf for four years
Read an Excerpt from Eric’s College Essay…
“Mrs. Tracey [Amanda Tracey, Clarke teacher of the deaf] has changed me by instilling a bold confidence in me with how to speak out on what I need without being embarrassed about it. I struggled a lot when I was younger with speaking up… I really hated being ‘different’ and it felt so weird to have these two devices [FM system and mini microphone] that the class had to use that were only for me. I hated it, but Mrs. Tracey would come in often to observe me using my devices and speaking up when necessary… She would always help and work with me on anything hearing-related, talking to teachers, helping me out with sounds, teaching me the anatomy of the ear and how people hear and how I do as well… She would encourage me, telling me I could have spoken to unmute the FM sooner, raise my hand more or strive for even better grades because that’s what she, my mom and even myself expect. And she helped me realize it’s more than just for the classroom but that I’ll need to do these things on my own and in the workplace.”
-Eric, Clarke alum and incoming freshman at Arizona State University